January 2012 marks my return to a place I prepared for academically but never mentally: teaching university students. I went from undergrad straight into graduate school and then on to finish a PhD. Along the way I lost sight of what I really wanted because of the grumpy academics that lined the walls of the [...]
Your Best Year Ever?
by Mohanalakshmi on December 31, 2011 in Life Lessons
There’s a lot of hemming and hawing about New Year’s resolutions: the last few years it’s become fashionable to be against them. Ninety percent of them are broken, experts say, and gyms love January as a month they rake in more income than at any other time of year. If that’s what you’re looking for, [...]
The Zombie Turkey Speaks.. err.. Gobbles
by Mohanalakshmi on November 27, 2011 in Books
The third Thursday of November snuck up on me; I was sleep deprived from staying up late to make the NaNoWriMo word counts and waking up early to soothe the angelic baby who had previously never seen the other side of nine a.m. Burning not a candle but my brain at both ends did not [...]
Fasting from Friends?
by Mohanalakshmi on August 14, 2011 in Culture
I love Ramadan, have from the first time I experienced it in Qatar. The fact many places are closed in the middle of the day removes the temptation to run around the city in an exhaust induced daze, wilting from heat and hating humanity. Instead it’s sort of like desert hibernation: I withdrawn into myself [...]
We Don’t Have to do it Your Way
by Mohanalakshmi on July 26, 2011 in Culture
I was having lunch with a friend the other day and as our nearly one year old boys toddled around her house, we got to chewing the salads and also the fat of life as close friends (and it must be said, women) do. Everything from business ideas to family drama was on the table [...]
How to Make Qatari Friends: Part Three
by Mohanalakshmi on June 19, 2011 in Uncategorized
We’ve been discussing the relationships between Qataris and expats for a few weeks and I’ve tried to pose some new angles to lamentation: “I’ve never been inside a Qatari house.” The reasons for this are many, but in the last two weeks, we’ve touched on a few key areas. First: Expats in general do not [...]
Why You Don’t Have Qatari Friends: Part One
by Mohanalakshmi on June 11, 2011 in Uncategorized
On Thursday afternoon, I co-hosted a teleclass to go with the course I wrote for the Global Academy on living and working in Qatar. Both writing the course and preparing for the teleclass were cause for rumination on 6 years of living in Doha. The most interesting part of the teleclass was when participants asked [...]
On Being Abnormal
by Mohanalakshmi on March 5, 2011 in Uncategorized
It happened again at a dinner party last night. Someone invariably was talking about a trip they went on where the local people were normal. And the city was normal. And the economy was normal. The latest land to be praised was Oman. Now granted, I’ve been to Oman and it beautiful, lush and green; [...]
Someone Else 2
by Mohanalakshmi on March 1, 2011 in Uncategorized
A few years ago I wrote about how my craving for chocolate munchkins at Dunkin’ Donuts helped get through a very lonely period. Every time I went to the DD in our neighborhood and there were none of my tasty delights left on the shelf, I wondered if someone else also loved the taste of [...]
When Friendships End
by Mohanalakshmi on August 22, 2010 in Uncategorized
Any major life occasion is an opportunity to celebrate with those closest to you. And whether it’s a graduation, wedding, funeral, or the birth of a baby, the people in your life will reveal themselves and the nature of their relationship to you. Since our son was born three weeks ago, we have been overwhelmed [...]
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