I grew up as a South Indian girl in North Florida. Needless to say, I was presented with a variety of ideas about the best conditions under which love could flourish. My parents, cousins, everyone in the Indian community over the age of thirty, said that love came after the wedding. You chose a partner [...]
A Life Lived Five Years at a Time
by Mohanalakshmi on February 5, 2012 in Life Lessons
January 2012 marks my return to a place I prepared for academically but never mentally: teaching university students. I went from undergrad straight into graduate school and then on to finish a PhD. Along the way I lost sight of what I really wanted because of the grumpy academics that lined the walls of the [...]
My Ratio is Off. Is Yours?
by Mohanalakshmi on January 22, 2012 in Life Lessons
My ratio is off. And I’m not talking about the 34-26-34 measurements that rapper Sir Mix-A-Lot made so famous (though I could very well be but that’s another blog post for another time) . I’m talking about my positivity ratio. Dr. Barbara Fredrickson, a woman who has spent twenty years researching the effect of thinking [...]
Does God Watch American Football?
by Mohanalakshmi on January 9, 2012 in Life Lessons
You don’t have to be into American football to know that this season a 24 year old named Tim Tebow is taking the field — and airwaves and blogsphere and Twitter — drawing unprecedented coverage (if you’ll forgive the pun) from sources as far flung as the BBC World Service. And not just for his [...]
Your Best Year Ever?
by Mohanalakshmi on December 31, 2011 in Life Lessons
There’s a lot of hemming and hawing about New Year’s resolutions: the last few years it’s become fashionable to be against them. Ninety percent of them are broken, experts say, and gyms love January as a month they rake in more income than at any other time of year. If that’s what you’re looking for, [...]
I Surrender to 2011
by Mohanalakshmi on December 21, 2011 in Life Lessons
Every generation must feel as though theirs is the one to leave footprints on history: “Where you when…” insert your iconic moment. For children of the ’80s this includes the Columbia shuttle explosion and the ’60s can’t be discussed without the assassination of JKF. But when we look back on 2011, there are so many [...]
10, 33, 60 — Nothing But Numbers
by Mohanalakshmi on September 4, 2011 in Life Lessons
This month I had an event that comes only once a year – my birthday. As a Hind child growing up in the west, December 25th came and went in our house like most other days. Friends would call and ask what I got. While I fumbled for an answer, the conversation would move on [...]







